ShouldYouLeaveHim

Just think about it. If you had a job to work eight hours, but you still got paid for working only one hour, what would
you do? You'd take the money run. This is another example of the old adage "why pay for the cow when you can
get the milk for free?"

What I'm saying here is that a man will only put as much energy into your relationship as you demand from him. If
you want an inch, he'll give you an inch.

Believe it or not, you can up the ante and whip your man into shape. If you demand a yard, he'll have to give you
that yard or know that you will walk away. That's the key to getting him to live up to your needs: the power of being
able to say "goodbye."

Men are simple creatures. You can win them over without putting out too much effort:

1. You make them feel good and they'll keep coming back.
2. You crowd them and they'll run.
3. If you're in high demand, he'll chase after you like a dog in heat.

But at the same time, if you demand very little, he won't give you much.

Here's what you need to consider:

1. What do I want out of this relationship? A companion, a future husband, physical satisfaction?
2. What do I need from a man at this present stage in life?
3. What does he want out of a relationship at the stage he's in?
4. Let him know what you need. Is it more intimacy? Do you like going out on dates?
5. Then, let him know what it feels like to be without you. Go out and do your own thing for a day or so.

Don't worry if your absence will make him leave you. If anything, it will bring him closer to you. Take that time away
to figure out if he has what it takes to give you what you want. If not, see ya later! If he doesn't come chasing you,
then you know he's the wrong guy!

However, if you let him know your needs and he makes an effort to fulfill those needs, you could have a winner.

The lesson here: if you're not getting what you want out of your relationship, look for something better. But, be sure
you don't overlook the man you have right in front of you.

-R. Challenger