Don't Confuse Debate with Incompatibility...
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Before anyone's temper flares, consider the fact that you can never take back the painful words you might say.
The moment they escape your mouth, you forever alter the state of your relationship.
Healthy debate is ABSOLUTELY necessary in all relationships! It expands your mind and helps you to become a
better person. Compromise is the ONLY way you can maintain a partnership. Though someone may be a good
partner, nobody fits together with exact precision.
When you feel your anger rise, pause and have a quick internal conversation with yourself. Ask yourself "is it
worth turning a healthy debate into an irreversible rift in your relationship"?
You will never have absolute agreement with any man, family member, friend or co-worker for that matter.
You should fight to protect healthy debate. For how can you or anyone else overcome a problem if you choose to
see, hear or speak about it?
R. Challenger
There you are. You and your man are talking
about an intense issue. It might be about your
relationship or the world as you see it.
Both of your tempers begin to flare.
You are no longer talking to one another rationally.
Emotion infuses every word that comes out of your
mouth.
It gets to the point where there's no turning back and
you're in a full-fledged argument.
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